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Do you want to raise your happiness levels, and live a satisfying life? It’s obvious, you do. We all want to be happier.

Here are some science-backed, and yet practical suggestions from University of California psychologist Prof Sonja Lyubomirsky, based on research findings by her and others. Satisfaction, or at least a temporary boost, is guaranteed.

8 Steps To A Satisfying Life

  1. Count Your Blessings
    One way to do this is with a “gratitude journal” in which you write down three to five things for which you are currently thankful – from the mundane (your peonies are in bloom) to the magnificent (a child’s first steps). Do this once a week, say, on Sunday night. Keep it fresh by varying your entries as much as possible.
  2. Practice Acts of Kindness
    These should be both random (let that harried mom go ahead of you in the checkout line) and systematic (bring Sunday supper to an elderly neighbor). Being kind to others, whether friends or strangers, triggers a cascade of positive effects—it makes you feel generous and capable, gives you a greater sense of connection with others and wins you smiles, approval and reciprocated kindness — all happiness boosters.
  3. Savor Life’s Joys
    Pay close attention to momentary pleasures and wonders. Focus on the sweetness of a ripe strawberry or the warmth of the sun when you step out from the shade. Some psychologists suggest taking “mental photographs” of pleasurable moments to review in less happy times.
  4. Thank A Mentor
    If there’s someone whom you owe a debt of gratitude for guiding you at one of life’s crossroads, don’t wait to express your appreciation—in detail and, if possible, in person.
  5. Learn To Forgive
    Let go of anger and resentment by writing a letter of forgiveness to a person who has hurt or wronged you. Inability to forgive is associated with persistent rumination or dwelling on revenge, while forgiving allows you to move on.
  6. Invest Time In Friends and Family
    Where you live, how much money you make, your job title and even your health have surprisingly small effects on your satisfaction with life. The biggest factor appears to be strong personal relationships.
  7. Take Care of Your Body
    Getting plenty of sleep, exercising, stretching, smiling and laughing can all enhance your mood in the short term. Practiced regularly, they can help make your daily life more satisfying.
  8. Develop Strategies For Coping
    There is no avoiding hard times. Religious faith has been shown to help people cope, but so do the secular beliefs enshrined in axioms like “This too shall pass” and “That which doesn’t kill me makes me stronger.” The trick is that you have to believe them.

[The above is an excerpt from the article The New Science Of Happiness by Claudia Wallis.]

Final Words

Why does happiness matter at all? Because happier people have many advantages over those less happy. Research shows happiness doesn’t just feel good, but happy people are more successful across many areas of life – marriage, friendship, income, work, charity, and health.

Plus, happiness is a skill that can be learned and honed by practice over the years.

The happier people:

  • earn more, get rich more
  • are more successful
  • are more popular, more loved
  • have better relationships
  • have more friends, bigger social circle
  • have more pleasant and satisfying marriages
  • have better physical health
  • are mentally stronger, yet calmer
  • are kinder and help others more
  • are better and more regarded leaders

Find out more of the advantages of being a happier person, here.


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