Do you live with a snorer? Are you married to one? Or, you’re a snorer yourself?
If yes, then you know how hard the struggle is. A long day of work is sure to result in little grunts, but chain-sawing forests every night can put your relationship on a tightrope.
The effects of snoring in a marriage span a little more than an annoyance. Snoring can cause relationship problems and even breakups.
So, how to stop snoring and get your relationships back on track?
When you do not get enough sleep due to your spouse’s snoring, it makes you more irritable. Small arguments in such cases can blow out of proportion. The negative effects, in such cases, will build up over time, creating tension in your relationship.
What Causes You To Snore?
You snore when air cannot move freely through your throat and nasal cavity. It causes the surrounding tissues to vibrate. There are many reasons why people snore — age, lifestyle, being overweight, poor health, blocked sinuses, and sleeping position.
Snoring is a sound that occurs during sleep when the soft tissue in the upper airway vibrates as you breathe.
As people age, their throats become narrower making the tissues prone to vibration. Smoking and drinking can also cause people to snore.
People who are out of shape snore more as more fat accumulation means more obstruction in the throat.
Snoring may also be a sign of sleep apnea which increases the risk of developing heart disease.
In fact, snoring is the first and most common symptom of sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is a condition when the air stops flowing into your lungs for 10 or more seconds.
What Can You Do About It?
Talk about it — that’s the first step to take to stop snoring.
Your spouse might not be aware of their night-time blaring. Or you might not be aware that you snore at the cost of disturbing your spouse’s sleep. Couples usually shy away from addressing such a problem dismissing it to be trivial.
But any such problem that can put your relationship at risk should be talked about openly for resolution.
Snoring also creates health concerns for the snorers. And talking about it is the first step toward curing it.
People suffering from sleep apnea should go for an overnight sleep study with their doctor’s consultation. The correction will be according to the report you get back.
11 Proven Remedies To Stop Snoring And Get Your Relationship Back On Track:
- Clean up your living area
- Rinse your nose with saline
- Humidify the bedroom
- Sleep on your side
- Lose some weight
- Abstain from alcohol
- Get ample sleep
- Stay well hydrated
- Do regular exercise and yoga
- Use mechanical methods
- Sleep in a different room from your partner
4 Easy Fixes To Stop Snoring
- Clean up Your Living Area: Identifying the causes of snoring is a bit tricky. A simple allergy can cause you to snore heavily. There are a huge number of other reasons you might be snoring. Cleaning your surroundings should be the first step towards sleeping better.
- Rinse Your Nose With Saline: A stuffy nose can block the nasal passage and cause you to snore. Rinsing it with salt water or using nasal decongestants can ease breathing.
- Humidify The Bedroom: Dirty rooms can give you a hard time breathing. Cleaning your room frequently and pairing it with a humidifier can help lessen the severity of snoring. If you use a rug, make sure to choose one that is easy to clean and does not easily collect dust.
- Sleep On Your Side: Sleeping lying on your back can cause you to snore. It makes the tongue and palate collapse to the wall of the throat, causing it to vibrate. Using a body pillow provides an easy fix as it helps you sleep on your side.
4 Lifestyle Changes To Stop Snoring
- Lose Some Weight: If you started snoring after you put on weight, weight loss may help. Gaining weight around your neck squeezes the throat, making the airway passage narrow. It collapses when you sleep, thus making you snore. However, weight loss doesn’t help everyone — since thin people snore too.
- Abstain From Alcohol: Alcohol reduces the resting tone of the muscles of your throat. Drinking a few hours before sleeping can turn you into a logging machine. Avoid alcohol at least six hours before sleeping.
- Get Ample Sleep: Working for hours without enough sleep makes your muscles floppy when you finally drop on your bed. Proper sleep and rest help reduce snoring.
- Stay Well Hydrated: Secretion in the nose and soft palate become sticky when you are not hydrated enough. This can cause you to snore. So, drink plenty of fluid throughout the day.
2 Other Remedies To Stop Snoring
- Do Regular Yoga And Breathing Exercises: A study conducted by the American College of Chest Physicians found that exercising and strengthening the mouth and tongue can cut the frequency of snores by 36% and the volume by 59%.
Simple yoga breathing techniques also help reduce snoring and strengthen the diaphragm. As an added bonus, yoga exercises also help reduce stress levels and calm the mind.
Here are the exercises the participants did:
- Push the tongue against the roof of the mouth and slowly slide it backward.
- Suck the entire tongue against the roof of the mouth.
- Force the back of the tongue against the base of the mouth touching the bottom of the front teeth.
- Lift the soft palate and uvula while saying “A”.
- Use Mechanical Methods:
- Orthopedic pillows — these help keep the jaw open and slightly forwards.
- Dental fixtures — Anti-snoring appliances like dental fixtures help reduce snoring. However, they are just a temporary fix.
- Positive Airway Pressure — A continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) machine pumps a steady stream of air through a mask worn over the nose and mouth.
- Surgery — Tissues can be removed from the back of the throat to widen the air passage.
1 Last Remedy For A Happy Snorer Relationship
Sleep Separately: When all other remedies fail, this extreme measure will help others sleep soundly without you feeling guilty.
It does not work for every couple as sleeping apart can create a rift between them — just the same as sleeping together with the partner snoring heavily. But if the partner is okay with sleeping apart, it can actually save their relationship.
Your relationship can be saved from this relationship killer. Talking about it is the first step in the direction of curing it. Simple changes in daily habits and lifestyles go a long way in curing it. While surgery and appliances do correct the problem, there are simpler ways to cure it.
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Authors’ Bio: Katherine Dilworth is a wife and a mother. Edited and reviewed by Sandip Roy—a medical doctor, psychology writer, and happiness researcher. Founder and Chief Editor of The Happiness Blog. Writes on mental health, happiness, positive psychology, mindfulness, and philosophy (especially Stoicism).
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