10 Warning Signs of A Psychopath: Unmask This Predator

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We imagine psychopaths (“psychos”) as parasites, who we can easily spot out.

But too many of them look and act like normal people. They hide in plain sight, playing the role of our doctors, attorneys, plumbers, or long-term friends.

Don’t get the wrong idea about these people’s deeper motives, or you’ll have many regrets.

Spot their warning signs, whether you are barely getting to know them, or have been suspecting something off with their behaviors.

Know who are you dealing with:

Psychopath, meaning a master of charm cloaked in emotional emptiness, navigating life with calculated detachment.

10 Warning Signs of A Psychopath

Psychopaths may disguise themselves as your friends, but will harm you eventually. So, you must learn to recognize them.

Here are 10 signs that you might be dealing with a psychopath:

1. Manipulative Nature

Psychopaths are experts at manipulating people.

They will manipulate you—though charms, lies, or sheer force and scare tactics—to do things they want.

Even a homicidal psycho can seem like a fun person to be with. Until it’s time to reveal their cold stares and cold hearts.

What makes them more evil is that they don’t care about the person they manipulate. They can make you sit on a faulty rollercoaster and then shrug their shoulders when you fall.

They don’t fear consequences, and lack guilt and remorse. Their heartless schemes are designed to give them something — cruel fun, the upper hand, or material benefit.

2. Superficial Charm

Psychopaths are very charming and charismatic, and their smooth mannerisms can leave you in awe.

But it’s always superficial.

They are charming as long as the lights are on. As soon as the curtains come down, they are their callous and conscience-less selves.

Some questions you may ask to reveal their superficiality:

1. “What are your long-term goals, and how do you plan to achieve them?”
2. “What values do you hold most dear, and how do they influence your decisions?”
3. “What do you think is the most important emotion to experience in life, and why?”
4. “How do you typically respond when someone shares their problems or feelings with you?”
5. “How do you think people perceive you, and do you think that perception matches your real self?”

Their charm makes them hard to resist until they have trapped you, like many covert narcissists.

A striking feature of much of the antisocial behavior shown by individuals with psychopathy is that it is mostly instrumental in nature, i.e., goal-directed towards achieving money, sexual opportunities or increased status.

— Cornell, Warren, & Hawk, 1996

2. Grandiose Self-Worth

A psychopath may exhibit a grandiose sense of self-importance.

Their egos are typically larger than their real selves, and they think are extraordinary and superior to everyone else. This makes them believe they deserve special treatment.

This grandiosity also makes them highly sensitive to criticism. They just cannot accept the truth that they can be less than perfect.

Keeping this in mind can help you avoid giving them strong negative feedback and protect yourself from their “reptilian” response.

3. Pathological Lying

They are champion liars. Their lies are beautiful.

Even when you know they are lying, you want to believe them.

One of the defining traits of a psychopath is their tendency to lie excessively, called pathological lying.

They often lie and add fake details to whatever they say for no clear reason. They may do so to check if they can manipulate others or to amuse themselves by fooling others.

Over time, people stop trusting anything they say as their lies get exposed.

Pathological lying, deception, and manipulation are the key features of the psychopath.

— Robert Hare & Adelle Forth

Moreover, they are good at pretending to be moved by your emotions.

They can seamlessly fit into any social situation, mirroring and amplifying the dominant emotions in the scene, without actually feeling anything.

5. Lack of Remorse or Guilt

One clear sign of psychopathy is a lack of remorse or guilt.

Psychopaths don’t feel bad about the harm they cause to others, and they often seem indifferent or unconcerned when facing consequences.

This emotional detachment lets them carry on with their harmful actions without being weighed down by guilt or regret. This makes them highly dangerous to interact with over the long term.

(Do you know why a life of “No Regrets” is such a bad idea?)

6. Shallow Emotional Response

Psychopaths have shallow emotional responses. They may not exactly hate you, but they will never be able to love you the way you would like to love and be loved.

This makes it hard for them to genuinely feel or express deep emotions like love, fear, or sadness.

People around them usually find their interactions and expectations go unfulfilled. They don’t quite feel your sadness or happiness.

Their lack of emotional depth often results in superficial relationships, making it difficult to form lasting, meaningful bonds with them.

Knowing a psychopath is often like having a hollow emotional bond.

7. Callousness and Lack of Empathy

Callousness and a lack of empathy are typical traits of psychopaths.

They struggle to understand or care about other people’s feelings, which often makes them seem cold and heartless.

This inability to feel moved by others’ emotions often leads to inexplicably selfish actions.

In turn, their blatant self-serving actions, disregarding how others feel and what contributes to their well-being, distance others from them.

Callousness is a person’s insensitivity and indifference to the feelings, suffering, or needs of others.

8. Failure to Accept Responsibility

Psychopaths are notorious for refusing to accept responsibility for their actions.

They often blame others for their own failures and wrongdoings, never admitting their part in causing harm.

This blame-shifting behavior makes them resistant to learning from their mistakes and making amends, further straining their personal and professional relationships.

It is hard to have the psychopath on your team and trust them to own up when they screw up.

9. Impulsive Behavior

Impulsiveness is another typical trait of a psychopath.

They often act on a whim, not thinking about the consequences or potential ramifications of their actions.

This impulsive behavior makes them unpredictable and less trustworthy, especially in high-stakes or high-risk situations.

Their actions can frequently have unexpectedly dangerous outcomes. So, people often feel insecure around them, never fully knowing how they would react in a given circumstance.

10. Criminal or Antisocial Activity

Lastly, psychopaths are more likely to engage in criminal or antisocial activities compared to the general population.

This inclination toward lawlessness can range from white-collar crimes to more violent offenses, and may stem from their lack of empathy and disregard for societal norms.

Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R)

The Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R), by Dr. Robert Hare, is a tool to diagnose psychopathic traits in an individual.

The PCL-R consists of 20 clinical signs of psychopathy, called items. Each item is scored on a three-point scale (0 = not present, 1 = somewhat present, 2 = definitely present).

Item Number	Item Description
1.	Glibness/superficial charm
2.	Grandiose sense of self-worth
3.	Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
4.	Pathological lying
5.	Conning/manipulative behavior
6.	Lack of remorse or guilt
7.	Shallow affect (superficial emotional responses)
8.	Callousness/lack of empathy
9.	Parasitic lifestyle
10.	Poor behavioral controls
11.	Promiscuous sexual behavior
12.	Early behavioral problems
13.	Lack of realistic long-term goals
14.	Impulsivity
15.	Irresponsibility
16.	Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
17.	Many short-term marital relationships
18.	Juvenile delinquency
19.	Revocation of conditional release (e.g., parole violations)
20.	Criminal versatility (engaging in diverse types of criminal activities)

10 Warning Signs of A Male Psychopath

1. He effortlessly captivates others with his charisma, often leaving a lasting impression that masks his true intentions.
2. He shows little concern for the emotional pain of others, often dismissing their feelings as unimportant or irrelevant.
3. He skillfully exploits relationships, using charm and deceit to manipulate others for his own benefit.
4. He believes he is inherently superior to those around him, often boasting about his achievements and abilities.
5. He frequently engages in reckless activities without considering the potential consequences, such as driving dangerously or making impulsive financial decisions.
6. He lies effortlessly and convincingly, often creating elaborate stories to cover up his actions or to gain sympathy.
7. He has a limited emotional range, often reacting to serious situations with indifference or a lack of genuine concern.
8. He consistently fails to meet obligations, whether in his job or personal life, often leaving others to pick up the pieces.
9. He has a pattern of violating social norms, which may include aggressive confrontations or criminal activities.
10. He rarely takes accountability for his actions, often blaming others or external circumstances for his problems.

FAQs

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Final Words

Stay vigilant. Psychopaths can seriously impact your mental well-being if you regularly interact with them.

Knowing how they act and think can help you make better decisions when dealing with them. However, not all “psychos” show all the traits listed above, and many may well mask their giveaway signs.

Ask an expert for help if you suspect someone you know might be a psychopath.

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